“The proven system for starting conversations without overthinking”
Hey there brothers!
Now in the past we have come up with several self help blogs to help you overcome your fears when it comes to approaching girls and being more attractive to them.
But all of that is of no use if you cannot “open a girl”.
To open a girl means to be able to strike that initial conversation which lays the basic platform for the rest of the evening.
Now be it a day game or a night game, be it because you really like her or just want a one night stand, it is very important to have a confident first approach.
But before you jump into the game, keep in mind that no matter how good your initial approach maybe there is always a chance of not receiving a positive response from the other end.
Remember, girls too are humans and very emotional with erratic mood swings.
There is always a possibility of a let down depending upon what her mood is like.
So be ready for that and do not let that break your morale or stop you from approaching other girls.
Now another thing you want to keep in mind is that you need not think too much or take too much time before you approach as thinking may lead to too much analysing and weighing and balancing a situation and
if you are new at this, it may end up making you nervous and you will end up finding excuses to not make that move.
So don’t give yourself too much time and when you see that girl you like, just walk up to her and start talking to her.
Starting a conversation is very crucial. An opener will help you break the ice. You may think about using a good pick up line and well, it may work at times.
But our advise is “keep it simple”.
Just walk up to her and greet her with a hello and tell her your name. This comes across as a very honest and polite approach and sends across a signal that you are interested in knowing her.
On the other hand, a pick up line as good as it may sound, can be perceived negatively and may send across an impression of you being a sleaze ball with shady intentions.
Once the conversation starts, don’t think too much and don’t stutter as it reflects under confidence, which is a big turn off. You don’t necessarily need to be at your wits end.
You can carry forward the conversation by simply asking her questions about her and if she responds,
well then you are sorted and you will not have to put too much effort into the conversation as she too will take equal initiatives.
With practice and constant approaching you will soon reach a point where you will not have to push yourself to get in the zone and will be a pro at it.
Now, for the ones who are shy, having a wing man can be of a great advantage. Your wing man can be by your side for the first few minutes when you approach a girl
and help the two of you break the ice and cross that stage of awkwardness. Once that is done and both of you start to get comfortable, he can sneakily move out of the picture letting you two spend some quality time together.
Remember guys!! These are a few tested ways that work well most of the times.
However there is no set approach to open a girl. Different approaches may work on different girls. The key is to be in constant practice and approach as many girls as you can.
The more you practice, the better will be your game. So keep approaching brothers and follow us for more useful tips and insight.
