“The real reason women choose some men over others“
Women are like a puzzle that can never be fully solved. Loved by some, hated by others and desired by all.
Men who don’t have them are running after them, men who have them are desperately trying to figure them.
Each woman is different and different approaches may work with different women. Like there is no set pick up line or approach that will be a 100% success with them all.
Remember the Mel Gibson starrer classic – What Women Want? He possessed a super power that every guy today wished he had.
The ability to read a woman’s mind; to be able to understand what is it exactly that she wants, how to be attractive to her and for a change be the object of her desire.
Wouldn’t it be the most perfect scenario guys?
But that’s all in the movie. In reality, we are not that lucky, now are we?
The truth is that women are complicated, they are emotional, have multiple mood swings, are over analytical and each woman responds differently to a given situation.
An approach that may attract one, may completely repel the other one. But don’t sweat it guys. This is where The Brothing steps in to ease your troubles.
Our dating instructor went on multiple dates as a part of an experiment and was successfully able to decode a few steps that works with almost every woman and enables one to be more attractive to her.
To understand this, let’s first focus on the basic difference between a male and a female attraction.
While as men we are instantly attracted to the more obvious physical traits like looks, physique etc.
For women it is the subtle layers of communication that comes first and if that clicks then good looks (which actually caught their initial attention) are just an icing on top of the cake.
Remember guys that it takes one good date for a woman to decide whether she wants you or not. Here are a few simple tricks that will help you become more attractive to her:
Confidence: Almost all women are attracted to men who are confident. Nobody wants be with someone who is in self-doubt and oozing out nervousness.
One of the best ways to appear confident is to be relaxed and be yourself, don’t over analyse it’s just a date and you are only going out with a human being, she won’t bite your head off at least not with her teeth!
The best way to reflect your confidence is to have the right body posture and to maintain a steady eye contact. Believe me guys there is no better turn on for a woman than to be sitting right next to a confident guy.
Dressing Sense: It is very important to dress appropriate for your first date. Remember the good old saying,” Keep it Simple”.
Well that definitely applies here. Don’t be too formal and don’t be too casual that she gets a feeling like you don’t care. A subtle hint of a good fragrance (please don’t bath in it and give her an attack)and you are all set to impress her.
Conversations: Now remember guys this is their best part of the date. A woman judges the future of a relationship basis the first conversation she has with you.
While for most men 90 percent of the conversations are non-verbal, this is where we go wrong. We all know that women love to talk, actually they love to be heard.
When she is talking about her self- pay attention. Also she does not want to get the feeling that she is talking to a wall. So don’t be silent.
Ask her the right set of questions so she is assured that you are listening and that you care enough to know her. This will definitely get you those extra brownie points guys.
Also don’t just ask her questions about her, tell her something about yourself.
Let her get to know you as well but don’t reveal all. Women like mystery and the more intrigued she gets to know you, the more attractive you are to her and the better the chances of a second date.
A Good Sense of Humor: As Marilyn Monroe rightly said, “If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.”
Having said this, it also does not mean that you become a stand up comedian on a date. Simply getting to make a girl laugh once or twice on the first date is all you need to be more attractive to her.
Physical Contact: Last but not the least creating a bit of subtle sexual tension. This definitely does not mean that you jump on them at the very first chance.
It means creating a sense of want in them by subtle physical contact with them, like triggering a spark in their mind.
You may brush your hand against hers once or twice while having a conversation or bump knees with her gently below the table.
This gives her the assurance that you are sexually attracted to her and that you want her but are not too desperate to invade her space.
Having said this guys one important thing to remember is to be yourself because it’s only then that you are most comfortable and will be able to strike a good rapport with her.
Put all this to practise and you will see for yourself that your attraction quotient will be upscaled.
