“Tired of getting friend-zoned? Here’s what you’re doing wrong”
TheBro Thing is back with yet another blog to help you with your dating life.
We previously gave you tips on how to get the desired likes on tinder and how to materialise the Tinder chat into a date.
Now we will give you a fee tips to remember when you actually go out on the date.
Now before we give you tips on getting good at your dating game, we want to address another major problem that most guys face.
That is whether it’s a date or just another casual meet.
Because we are not man enough to a woman or let’s just say we do not make it verbally clear or are not physical enough to show her that we are attracted to her,
what we may think of a date might just be a meet for her, and therefore most of us end up getting friend zoned.
Solution? Well it’s simple be very clear by the way of your actions and conversation that you are attracted to her and that you want more than just friendship.
Be unapologetic about your behaviour and stay calm, composed and confident when you take her out.
Now once it’s established that it’s a date, what next? Well what most of us think is that getting a yes for a date is like winning an award.
We put the girl on a very high pedestal and build up a pressure for ourselves and mess up the date mostly getting a rejection.
Now guys please remember that she is out on a date with you not out of pity but because she is equally interested in you and attracted to you.
She had the choice of saying no, but she chose to be with you. So show yourself some respect and put yourself on a higher pedestal too.
Also most of us try too hard to build a conversation with impressive words therefore end up running out of topics to talk about.
Now guys remember it is not the words that build the connection but the emotions behind them.
Be yourself and chat with her and get to know her. That’s the best way to build a connection and have fun on a date.
One of the most common questions that we get is where to take her out on a date.
Well the answer is anywhere. Be it a mall, a movie, a restaurant or even a walk in the park. Remember it’s not the girl or the location that will make it a success.
You are the key to your own success. Just be yourself and do not focus too much on getting laid but instead focus on having a good time and you might just end up meeting someone awesome.
